Should a guy pay for the first date?

I had this question in my mind for a while after looking over the blog post, "Should the girl pay for the first date?". I have heard from a lot of women that if a guy does not pay for the date then she will easily feel awkward, unease or offended. They have also said that it is almost like a deal breaker and she will no longer pursue him or even bother getting to know the guy any further. I know this question goes back and forth a lot and I want to know what everybody else here thinks. ME personally I feel more comfortable paying for our meals. At least until a relationship is established. That is just how I am as a polite person. So what do you guys think?.....