How To Talk To A Woman About Pickup By Mehow

For obvious reasons I spend a far amount of time reading blog posts and news articles about the pickup artist community, seduction, dating tips and so on. However, I must say, time-after-time and post-after-post I am impressed with the blogs posted over at Mehow.tv. The posts are informative, articulate, educational and maintain a constant feeling that Mehow.tv and the Mehow.tv team deeply care about what they are doing and take their educational responsibilities very seriously. A strong example of this is in the below reading that was posted at Mehow.tv yesterday. Below is only a partial post of what was written so make sure to head on over to Mehow.tv and read the rest of the blog post.

To celebrate a year of success, today, I’m going to give out some of our secrets on…

“How to talk to a Woman about Pickup.”

First off, unless you absolutely have to (because it’s your identity) - you should never… talk about pickup with women that you are sarging. Even if it is your identity, you should try to use another one to avoid talking about pickup. Talking about pickup with a set you are interested in… will, absolutely, positively cause problems in the set. That said, some of you will want to talk about pickup anyway! So I might as well give you my best handler for it. You see, my PU identity is so ingrained in my life - I am frequently forced to talk about PU, despite my desire not to. Here’s the plan I devised, or rather a simple routine, which appears to be the best damage control in those situations.

It typically goes exactly like this:

HB: “What do you do?”

Me: “I’m a writer.”

HB: “What do you write?”

Me: “Books.”

HB: “What kind of books?”

Me: “Dating coaching.”

HB: “Ohhh … really?”

Me: “Yes … most men suck most of the time … wouldn’t you agree?” (this reframes things nicely)

HB: “Yes they do.”

Me: “I’m fighting that fight for you … one man at a time. It’s tough. We’re behind in our numbers. You may not get a date with a cool guy this year.” (note the implied takeaway that me and her aren’t going to be dating)

HB: then, “So what to you teach them exactly?”

Me: “Mostly I tell them to imitate my incredible personality.”

HB: then “No really, what do you teach them?”

Me: “I teach them how to be this awesome, all the time.”

HB: “So how did you learn all this?”

Me: “I don’t know exactly … I just am this way.”

Me: “So what did you want to be when you were 7?”

Note the 10SSA style edgy responses, and how she keeps pressing you for info at a lower value velocity.

The bottom line secret to this - is to never get into the technical details of PU with them. The only real answers you should give them all should sub-communicate is that you are a natural, and that others imitate you. Everything else in the above example adds edge, attraction, and a bit of comfort elements. The assumed frame of - “Women have a huge problem finding quality men, and were helping you by coaching up cool guys, but you aren’t getting with me” is very powerful. After letting the thread run for a bit direct it in a different direction as illustrated above. So if you absolutely must talk about pickup – use this assumed frame, like the example above – and you’ll easy be able to progress into the set!