Spinx's Blog (4)

NOTE: I wrote this in my boring class so it is unedited and unproofread. I will fix it up later. A few weeks ago, my friend and personal PUA coach told me that I was way to aggressive when I entered a set. I came off as if I was trying to get some from the girls and it scared them off. I followed his advice and toned down my aggression, vastly improving my results. He also told me that I spend too much time in "alpha" mode and sometimes entering in "beta" mode was the better route, as it made… Continue

Those who have read my previous field reports know that they are all about weekend nightgame, but this time I decided to start early. Before I get started, I want to define some things. Nightgame – Every time I hit on girls at a bar, club, or party I consider it night game. Daygame – Every time I on girls outside any of the three above places, regardless of the time. For example, if I hit on a girl at 12 AM but we are in the library, I still consider that daygame because of the situation. Su… Continue

My Saturday night started with a choice. There were three parties going on: 1. One of my friends was having a birthday party. She was a really cool girl and some of our mutual friends would be there. The downside was that it was 2 miles away and I’d have to drive to a section of town that is not known for its pristine safety record. 2. A guy who I had only met once was throwing a Halloween/Birthday party for himself. Chances are I wouldn’t know most of the people there, but I knew it’d be fun… Continue

I’ve been so focused on what I have yet to accomplish that I have overlooked how far I have come. For this reason, I have just now noticed how much I’ve improved over the summer. So here's the little before and after comparison I did recently in my head that helped me realize this. Before: I avoided people. It wasn't that I was afraid they'd be mean to me, it was that I was afraid of them starting a conversation with me only to see how boring I was. I was so afraid of screwing up I neve… Continue