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Hot or not?

Hey guys! Are we becoming to obsessed with the curves of our women? Is it starting to become the only thing we rate their beauty with? Lately I've noticed a common pattern when socialicing with friends and strangers alike. When a women walks by, or is being discussed by guys everyone always ends up saying "She was SO HOT!". I haven't heard ONCE in the last twelve months that a guy except me has called a girl beautiful. It is as if beauty is an old fashioned way of looking at girls, and that a… Continue

Added by Thomas "Hatsy" on October 19, 2009 at 9:28am — No Comments

First serious beginnings of success

WOW that was smooth. I got a date out of the blue. I havent had a girl agree to go on a date with me in over a year, and a cute stranger named Emily just agreed to go see district 9 with me. HAZAAA!! Im not completely clueless she can still blurr and bail on me wich is OK, but wow. She works at this coffee shop that me and some palls from work were hanging at after work. I only ran game on her because I am committed to practicing my skills, not that she wasn't cute enough just that I never s… Continue

Added by Alanvalentinus on August 14, 2009 at 9:40am — 1 Comment

Should a guy pay for the first date?

I had this question in my mind for a while after looking over the blog post, "Should the girl pay for the first date?". I have heard from a lot of women that if a guy does not pay for the date then she will easily feel awkward, unease or offended. They have also said that it is almost like a deal breaker and she will no longer pursue him or even bother getting to know the guy any further. I know this question goes back and forth a lot and I want to know what everybody else here thinks. ME person… Continue

Added by Alan on July 3, 2009 at 12:33pm — 2 Comments

How The Pickup Artist started to change my life.

A couple of months ago, I was on the verge of ending my life because I saw no meaning to it. I am alone, I have no friends, no one to talk to and no one to help me out with anything. I am 22 years old, and still a virgin. I looked at women and felt like they have it easy, most of them lost their virginity in high school, dated a lot of guys and make out with a lot of guys, and just go from one guy to another. I felt like they had all the power. I felt like beauty, money, etc. was what they were… Continue

Added by Willem Toerien on June 28, 2009 at 3:31pm — 6 Comments

Help Please

Hi All, I've been broken up with my ex girlfriend for 8 months now. I've never been very confident, but what little I had has evaporated completely. I have not been on a date in 8 months, and all the girls that are attracted to me I have no interest in. I only got interested PUA because a friend reccommended the book "The Game". I'm halfway through the book and constantly find myself asking if this is real. The stories in the book of transformation seem unreal. I then googled up some names and… Continue

Added by Bruno on June 18, 2009 at 1:02am — 3 Comments

How to Approach Women in Clothing Stores

Something that I've noticed while researching PUA, is that there is limited information about the details and techniques of game, in locations other than clubs, bars, coffee shops...ect. I feel that one place particularly, a place that many many men and women go to, has been somewhat neglected. This place is, the mall. For someone who's a little younger than most PUA's, I don't visit clubs regularly. I do however go to coffee shops and such, but the point is, many young people (and old) visit an… Continue

Added by Danny Dash Bevins on April 9, 2009 at 6:00pm — No Comments

Nisha

Just wanted to let you all know that Nisha is doing great! She has been the last 4 months in the hospital and has been getting chemotherapy. The tumor is thank god shrinking! Continue

Added by SunShine on March 23, 2009 at 2:25pm — No Comments

He's Just Not That Into You, the movie spoilers

I went to go watch “ He’s Just Not That Into You” with a few girls. At first, I was very excited to see this movie because I read the book so I thought, hey the movie must be interesting. The opening scene begins with a young girl being hit by a little boy. She runs to her mother telling her about the deed while sobbing. Her mother responds that the reason why the little boy hit her was because the boy was merely interested in her; thus he hit her and called her names. Thus it progresses with wo… Continue

Added by Elle, a guy's best friend on March 22, 2009 at 3:50pm — No Comments

Confrontation!

Since we do things backwards down here in the bumblefog, it just figures that my first blog post will be about something other than purely pickup stuff. Ever gotten a better grip on your life, passed some milestones and got pretty confident and then run into that person that got the best of you so many years ago, or was just there at the time and wants to define you forever more, with a grin, by that moment of your weakness so long ago? Suddenly it's like your right back there, picking up where… Continue

Added by Cable on March 3, 2009 at 5:57am — No Comments

VH1 Tough Love

Hey guys, just curious to hear your thoughts on this new show for women... Tough Love? I'm still thinking it's not filling that female game need. *grin* <3 Fun Continue

Added by Fun on February 9, 2009 at 6:41pm — 1 Comment

Nine-year-old boy makes talking to girls easy

Last year, I interviewed "Mystery," billed as the greatest pickup artist. He has a television show that helps men who perpetually strike out meet their match. This Valentine's Day, the advice for a happily-ever-after comes in a smaller package. Alec Greven, author of the be… Continue

Added by PickUpTara on February 4, 2009 at 8:58am — 2 Comments

Stephen Poon Interview - Fantastic Voyeur

Reality shows are America's guiltiest pleasure. We are all dying to see just "how the other half lives." We are natural born voyeurs. Hollywood epitomized it with the classic Rear Window. Thanks to technology and major networks we now can sit safely in our own hom… Continue

Added by PickUpTara on February 3, 2009 at 10:00am — No Comments

How To Talk To A Woman About Pickup By Mehow

For obvious reasons I spend a far amount of time reading blog posts and news articles about the pickup artist community, seduction, dating tips and so on. However, I must say, time-after-time and post-after-post I am impressed with the blogs posted over at Mehow.tv. The posts a… Continue

Added by PickUpTara on January 27, 2009 at 9:38am — 4 Comments

Recession dating By Boston Globe

Dating without an income? Here are some tips for the un- and under-employed looking for love.… Continue

Added by PickUpTara on January 26, 2009 at 8:47am — No Comments

An Approach to Approach Anxiety By Adam Lyons

Hey Guys, Are you afraid of approaching someone you like through a fear of rejection? Do you get that horrible feeling in your stomach and begin to formulate 100 reasons why someone wouldn’t want to talk to you? This is a lot more common than you would believe. There are a number of dif… Continue

Added by PickUpTara on January 26, 2009 at 8:33am — 2 Comments

A Women's Desire - What Do Women Want?

Meredith Chivers is a creator of bonobo pornography. She is a 36-year-old psychology professor at Queen’s University in the small city of Kingston, Ontario, a highly regarded scientist and a member of the editorial board of the world’s leading journal of sex… Continue

Added by PickUpTara on January 26, 2009 at 8:30am — No Comments

Blow Away Approach Anxiety with the New CD from World Famous Pick Artist, the Asian Playboy

Learn how to master the art of the pick up and conquer your fear of approaching beautiful women from the Asian Playboy in Episode 1 of Pick Up Artist Radio, now available on CD. Los Angeles, Calif. (PRWEB) January 26, 2009 -- Since the launch of Pick Up Artist Radio, men from all ov… Continue

Added by PickUpTara on January 26, 2009 at 8:14am — No Comments

The No-Drama Guide to Relationships

Master pickup artist Savoy helps you avoid the relationship potholes and stay drama-free! Displayed on FHMOnline.com. Enjoy the read: Congratulations – you hooked up with that hottie your friends were all drooling over. But… Continue

Added by PickUpTara on January 25, 2009 at 3:47pm — No Comments

There Are No Miracles By David Wygant

A little bio on David Wygant as well as his most recent blog. Read, enjoy, learn and get ready for lots more! For over nearly 20 years David Wygant has been earning the trust of American men and women looking to transform their love lives. Today, no dating coach… Continue

Added by PickUpTara on January 25, 2009 at 3:27pm — No Comments

Malcolm Gladwell is the Key to The Game By Gawker.com

Are you aware that reading the pop sociology of Malcolm Gladwell will turn you into a Certified Player (of women)? It's true! Real live pickup artist "The Don" reveals Gladwell's seductive lessons. The Don, who was featured in the New York Post a while back spoke t… Continue

Added by PickUpTara on January 24, 2009 at 3:11pm — 1 Comment