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I closed the deal with a girl that i F it up befour

Well guys after talking with this girl and working out are diferenscese well we got to meet up and she came to my place and we did it well after that we were talking to one and another like real people Like there is a connection.

Well it went really good we said we will call eatch other to meet up and i called her the next day at night and we said to meet up on friday to see her were she has to study to pas some exames shes got in september.
On friday i called her up since i saw her on the msn and said you dident go so you were going to make me go there and not telling me you werent going ?

She said that se fell assleep and dident go and she dident think i was going to go and her parents have punished her the hole weekend.
so i said to her i could at least of sent me an sms telling me so and i said well that meens you dont want to meet up okey another day will see. But then she said i will ask my mum and see if she lets me latter are you going to be at home and around what time do you want me to call you to tell you things? I gave her the time and she did call me but she couldent so i said to her to call me on saturday dident tell her a time and i will call her on sunday to see if we can meet up on sunday and left it at that but we dident say at what time were going to call this time.

My question is if she dosent call becase it seems like she is in to me and we did do it i can perfectly call her on sunday like planed rite?

She said shes sorry and we both

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Permalink Reply by Chris on July 25, 2009 at 3:35pm: I think she is just not that into you man. A girl, if she really wants will almost walk through fire to get to you. She will break curfew, sneak out of the house, drive off in her parent's car and more nonsense to go on a date with you.

What you are seeing as "seems into me" is actually her failure to communicate through lies to tell you that you are just not worth her attention at that moment. Note I said at that moment. Women are programmed to be polite. So she would rather lie to you than to hurt your feelings by telling you straight up that she's not into you and let's just be friends. I recommend you try to find another girl and try again when you two merge path again in life.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Michael on July 26, 2009 at 4:11am: Well i called her up today and no answer well she losses it, any one else wants to write down there ideas towords this situaction?; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Eric Rose on July 28, 2009 at 4:05am: she may have the young college girl push pull syndrome, she feels kind of slutty and may not want to get up again so quick, call her in two weeks... (one week min.)

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Permalink Reply by Michael on July 28, 2009 at 10:14am: Eric Rose she may have the young college girl push pull syndrome what dose that meen.

If she feels like a slut i tried to not make her feel like that becase the day afeter we did it or 1 day after that i called her and we were going to meet up and she was surpised like i wasent going to call her and told me she was punished and will call me in and asked me what time to call me to try to ocnvince her parents and she called me back.

But since that day i dont know anything from her No one answed the her home and her mobiles off and she hasent gone online its like shes disapierd from the map well if some thing has happend she will see i was worried for her that isent a bad thing or is it ?

Well im going to do what you said wait 2 weeks i dont want to push her or anything like that but dont you guys and gitls on here think its strange that when i called after the day; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Eric Rose on July 28, 2009 at 10:37am: Well Michael, in the long run it's not a big deal, this will not affect you in 10 years. Have fun and you can't go wrong, I think you maybe overthinking things a bit, granted I have a lot less information than you. If you are in school, there are always other chics to fill your precious time. I wish you the best in two weeks M.

YCGPPS- young college girl push pull syndrome: HB in school who had a boyfriend but never had casual sex due to a highly controlled environment (or just being uptight), who wants the sex but doesn't want to get labeled a slut.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Michael on July 28, 2009 at 11:08am: Eric Rose i get it but this is the funny thing i knew this girl last summer we liked eatch other we dident get to have sex and i liked this girl and trust me ive meet lots of girls but this girl is poisen but i like it and after time passed now this summer we got to meet up again and i flirted with her on the msn and got her to catch 2 buses to come strait to my home and we talked and had fun together and then had sex. I have to say she did tell me something after having sex with me she said: How long do we know eatch other for? And when did we meet? I Ansewrd and gave her a hug becase i feelt that she was feeling strange.

She started to tell me things from her life privet things after doing it to.

Oh and befour she even tried to give me shit about ex boyfriends and all that crap but i changed the subject.

Isent it that when a girl has sex with a guy there relashinship changes completly compared from befour that they were fireands?

The next day she was okey on meeting up but since she sleeped in becse she had to go to summer clases her parents punshed her and told me this when i called her and she said she would try to convince them and will call me back and she did.

But since that day i dont know anything from this girl she hasent gon on msn has her mobile off and no one anserd at home. she like dissapierd thats what makes me think its wierd; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Michael on July 28, 2009 at 1:57pm: I forgot to say i feel like ive lsot her becase i wasent beeing my self and following this routens and she knew that and girls dont like that its true and i feel even worst for using these routinse and waht the books say becase i f it up dosent anyone else feel like that?; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Michael on July 29, 2009 at 5:35am: I havent called her yesturday or today im not going to nither today my sister said to me wait untill tursday and send her a sms saying:Hey is every thing okey havent heard from you in sometime is every thing okey? Get in totch with me when you can. And seee what happens giving her 2 days or 3 will give her inuff time to think things up or what ever could of happend and just wait from there.

By the way she went online today early in the morning after not going online for 4 days its like she did that manipulative thing girls do making us men irritated not answering are calls and giving sign of life after those days.

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