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How important is money

How important is your level of income to you? How important do you THINK it is to the girl or girls you're wanting to date or are dating?

I'm betting that the guys are more hung up on this than the girls are. What are your thoughts?

From my personal experience, sure the female wants you to make money and be able to support yourself. However, in the last two years, every single woman I have been involved with, without exception, has made more money than me. This includes two serious LTR's. Not a SINGLE woman has held it against me.

So, where is your mindset on this?

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Permalink Reply by Gnostos on June 6, 2009 at 9:51pm: One of the things I have learned is money is only important if you place importance/self-esteem on it. I myself really don't care how much money she has compared to me, as long as I can take care of myself. It's more of a pride thing. I need to be self-reliant to feel confident and that comes out in my game.

With this economy, it is not what you do or how much you have, it is that you are actually doing something other than screwing around on the computer. My last girlfriend made more than me and we were cool with that. In fact it was our religious beliefs that broke us up.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by tarafriend on June 7, 2009 at 8:50am: Yeah many women want money but there is one group of women who only want money, there is big difference between two. But yeah most of the time its quite easy for me to track golddigger. Yeah I agree most women don't bother much about money as long as you keep up the game. I have simple mantra "if you respect yourself, the whole fuging world will respect you".; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Cable on June 14, 2009 at 8:00pm: If she makes more money than me, great. There's got to be at least *one* thing she does better than me.; ▶ Reply to This