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Can you make recovery after being really harsh?

So I'll base this off a second encounter I had last week. So I was flirting with this beautiful girl definitely a 10 and she was being totally into herself and was shaking my negs like I was complements her so anyway this led into me saying sarcastically " You think your cute don't you." she responded by saying Yes. Me (smiling): "Your a six" totally objectifying her and dissing her at the same time, overkill? Or did I just not know where to take it I did what I normally do and tried to play it off as a joke but she was pissed.

Is there any recovering from that?

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Permalink Reply by Romeo on July 2, 2009 at 1:55am: absolutely. it's all in HOW you say it.. sorry to tell you, but she was probably just punishing YOU for bad behaviour, the same as you would punish her if she turned around and talked to another guy. You would punish her by talking to another girl. She punished you by getting pissed... Girls always have that as a last resort - a girl gets pissed off and any guy thats cares about what they think will instantly become apologetic and beg for forgiveness.. its a secret weapon.

Logically, you would treat that as a shit test then right?
wrong.

this is her last resort secret weapon, which means yeah you have gone too far. pamper her with a smile, and admit yeah sorry too far.. you're actually a 9 i was just teasing, Usually at that point i run my simple 'slaps' routine - which is pretty similar to a k-close except you get them to slap you.

"Ok fine im sorry/yeah my bad... stupid joke/whatever pampering --> are you a good slapper?"
"[any response]"
"well i bet you cant slap that well, but ill let you have your revenge"
[slaps]
"not bad.. that was about a 7.. i dont think you were really trying to hurt me... do you... care about me or something?"

thats the first time ive shared that.. although im sure im not the first to think of a way out of going too far.. :P enjoy!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by narcissist on July 2, 2009 at 4:32pm: Romeo's trick would definitely work on me; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Chris on July 3, 2009 at 2:59pm: Yes, watch my best friend's girl.

I disagree with Romeo's response. Some of the most hot and steamy makeout with girls in clubs come from her being totally pissed. She wouldn't be pissed if you doesn't care about you or what you thought about her. She being totally pissed is just the last retort shit test. Don't give in to it.

What may work is state this with a straight face, "Ma'am, the we the United States of America does not negotiate with terrorists." *Wink and smile* or *Reach out one arm hug her, kiss her on the forehead then push her away*, saying "Ok, get off me now." That last one would usually get her to smile again.

Don't apologize for anything.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by narcissist on July 5, 2009 at 10:23pm: But its just tempting to slaaaaap the the hell out of a guy! One time a guy said: "Ewww. You spit on me" So I really did spit on him after that. I loved it!!!! What you are saying might work on some girls. I like stubborn guys, but if they make me work too hard, I pass them on. I want to have positive emotions when I'm interacting with my men. I prefer rewards instead of punishment. And it sucks when you are very pretty, guys come and try neg you down all the time. And not apologizing. I am sick of it. Saw "Notebook"? Its a cool chick movie for a reason. Good luck on scaring girls away.; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by narcissist on July 5, 2009 at 10:46pm: Oh, I forgot.
When guys neg me down, and then try to make out, its like not only they are disrespecting me, but they are disrespecting themselves. Its like they are settling. And I don't need sorry @ss f@ck. What can I say? A narcissist :D Ayn Rand felt the same way.; ▶ Reply to This