the ability to not be or act like a pushover. "nice" men tend to come off like pushovers to a lot of girls. bad guys tend to fight back, push back and then want the girl to act like a doormat. a lot of girls like that, i guess!
because we tend to verbalize all the stupid shit that runs through our heads. for me, my filter isn't very good. *LOL* i tend to want to work my shit out loud and that can make me come off as a leeeetle crazy.
we all know that chicks are a lot more verbal than men are. we just come off more flip-flopped than men cause we show it off more.